How many times have you heard it, or read it in books like “Who took my cheese”?
And, yes, the only constant in life is CHANGE!!
You would hear: Change is good for you. … If you think it is difficult to adapt to a new situation that is really because you have not seen the opportunity that this represents to you. Etc., etc..
Unfortunately, I have seen examples that people actually see the new situation as an opportunity, yes. But in an “opportunistic” behaviour I have seen them actually turn into persons that I (or others) do not recognise anymore.
Say: A man who would be telling you and his dauhter that WHITE is good, and he would live according to WHITE. Then, something happens that would leave him in a totally different situation. So, after a brief`period of time, seeing that hecan, he would start surround himself with GREY and BLACK and go for BLACK and GREY…
In those cases, I think change has not been good. Because these individuals have misinterpreted the opportunity. OR, before the change, they were not being themselves – and we really got to know a false personality not true to himself….